如何训练孩子上厕所
一旦你的孩子准备开始如厕训练，你就需要做好准备。以下是如何训练你的孩子上厕所，包括什么时候开始，如何处理事故，以及来自父母的其他顶级上厕所训练技巧。
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Once your child is ready to start potty or toilet training, you'll need to be prepared. Here's how to potty train your child, including when to start, how to deal with accidents and other top potty training tips from parents.<\/p>"},{"meta_id":107372,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body","meta_value":"a:15:{i:0;s:7:\"content\";i:1;s:3:\"mpu\";i:2;s:7:\"content\";i:3;s:5:\"image\";i:4;s:7:\"content\";i:5;s:11:\"block-quote\";i:6;s:7:\"content\";i:7;s:11:\"block-quote\";i:8;s:7:\"content\";i:9;s:11:\"block-quote\";i:10;s:7:\"content\";i:11;s:11:\"block-quote\";i:12;s:7:\"content\";i:13;s:3:\"mpu\";i:14;s:7:\"content\";}","value":["content","mpu","content","image","content","block-quote","content","block-quote","content","block-quote","content","block-quote","content","mpu","content"]},{"meta_id":107374,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_0_content","meta_value":"
How do I know if my toddler is ready to start potty training?<\/h2>
Tactics will only be successful if your tot is at the right developmental stage to start potting training. Here are the main signs they might be ready:<\/p>
- They're old enough to have bladder control<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Toilet training is much easier with children aged two and upwards. Proper toilet training is virtually impossible for a child under 18 months because the sphincters (muscle outlets) of the bladder and bowel aren't yet under their control.<\/p>","value":"
How do I know if my toddler is ready to start potty training?<\/h2>
Tactics will only be successful if your tot is at the right developmental stage to start potting training. Here are the main signs they might be ready:<\/p>
- They're old enough to have bladder control<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Toilet training is much easier with children aged two and upwards. Proper toilet training is virtually impossible for a child under 18 months because the sphincters (muscle outlets) of the bladder and bowel aren't yet under their control.<\/p>"},{"meta_id":515597,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_edit_last","meta_value":"5","value":"5"},{"meta_id":515598,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_expiration-date-status","meta_value":"saved","value":"saved"},{"meta_id":515599,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_edit_lock","meta_value":"1626341488:5","value":"1626341488:5"},{"meta_id":515604,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_metadata_meta_title","meta_value":"field_5ff8482f6b791","value":"field_5ff8482f6b791"},{"meta_id":515605,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_metadata_meta_description","meta_value":"field_5ff848406b792","value":"field_5ff848406b792"},{"meta_id":515606,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"metadata_do_not_allow_indexing","meta_value":"0","value":"0"},{"meta_id":515607,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_metadata_do_not_allow_indexing","meta_value":"field_60255d5f751c0","value":"field_60255d5f751c0"},{"meta_id":515608,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"metadata","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515609,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_metadata","meta_value":"field_5fd3830066848","value":"field_5fd3830066848"},{"meta_id":515610,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"show_sponsored_content_disclaimer","meta_value":"0","value":"0"},{"meta_id":515611,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_show_sponsored_content_disclaimer","meta_value":"field_6070087df5508","value":"field_6070087df5508"},{"meta_id":515612,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_standfirst","meta_value":"field_5fd38e9e96b76","value":"field_5fd38e9e96b76"},{"meta_id":515613,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"content_author","meta_value":"8043","value":"8043"},{"meta_id":515614,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_content_author","meta_value":"field_5fd379f22a693","value":"field_5fd379f22a693"},{"meta_id":515615,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"hero_image","meta_value":"13245","value":"13245"},{"meta_id":515616,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_hero_image","meta_value":"field_6006f13821768","value":"field_6006f13821768"},{"meta_id":515617,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_0_content","meta_value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35","value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35"},{"meta_id":515618,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body","meta_value":"field_5ff5e30b00b34","value":"field_5ff5e30b00b34"},{"meta_id":515619,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"default_hub","meta_value":"8056","value":"8056"},{"meta_id":515620,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_default_hub","meta_value":"field_5fd379f22a5f0","value":"field_5fd379f22a5f0"},{"meta_id":515621,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"hub_data_hub_image","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515622,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_hub_data_hub_image","meta_value":"field_5ff46fa656d18","value":"field_5ff46fa656d18"},{"meta_id":515623,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"hub_data_hub_title","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515624,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_hub_data_hub_title","meta_value":"field_5ff847a9e8dce","value":"field_5ff847a9e8dce"},{"meta_id":515625,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"hub_data_hub_teaser_text","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515626,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_hub_data_hub_teaser_text","meta_value":"field_5ff8686325fd2","value":"field_5ff8686325fd2"},{"meta_id":515627,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"hub_data","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515628,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_hub_data","meta_value":"field_5fd37e2cba3bd","value":"field_5fd37e2cba3bd"},{"meta_id":515629,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"manual_related_links","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515630,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_manual_related_links","meta_value":"field_5fd37f6aba3c0","value":"field_5fd37f6aba3c0"},{"meta_id":515631,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"sponsor","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":515632,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_sponsor","meta_value":"field_5fd3805f79998","value":"field_5fd3805f79998"},{"meta_id":518697,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_1_id","meta_value":"1","value":"1"},{"meta_id":518698,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_1_id","meta_value":"field_605356a45ac1b","value":"field_605356a45ac1b"},{"meta_id":518699,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_2_content","meta_value":"
Bear in mind that there's a wide variation in how quickly toddlers start potty training. Lateness in acquiring bladder and bowel control can be genetic<\/a> and boys may take longer to get the hang of it than girls.<\/p>
- You're changing fewer nappies<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
With bladder control inevitably comes fewer nappy changes. Once your child stays dry for a couple of hours, this may be a sign that they are developmentally ready to start potty training.<\/p>
- They know they're doing a poo or a wee<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
At around 18 months, toddlers often know that they're opening their bowels and, at this stage, are starting to link cause and effect. When it's happening, they'll likely stop what they're doing and wear a look of concentration on their faces.<\/p>
They might also vocalise that they've done a wee or a poo and tug at their nappy<\/a> or lie down in the 'change me now' position \u2013 a sure sign that they've noticed their nappy is soiled.<\/p>
- They're showing an interest in the potty or toilet<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Your child has probably been following you to the toilet for some time now. If they start indicating that they'd like to try using the potty or toilet themselves, encourage this role play even if it doesn't initially produce any results.<\/p>
What is a normal age for potty training?<\/h2>
Children tend to start potty training when they're around two years old, but it can happen anywhere between the ages of 18 months and three-and-a-half years.<\/p>
This does, of course, depend entirely on the child and some children may not start potty training until after the three-and-a-half year mark.<\/p>
How to prepare for potty training<\/h2>
If you think your toddler might be ready to give potty training a go, here's how to prepare:<\/p>
- Make sure your child is in good health<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
There's no point starting potty training while your child is feeling under the weather or ill. Start potty training when they're chirpy and in good health.<\/p>
- Is it the right time of year?<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Summer is probably the best season for potty training. Your toddler can potter around the garden, or the parts of your home you don't mind getting dirty, without a nappy on.<\/p>
She can then see what she's producing and, if there are accidents, your extra laundry and soggy rugs will dry more quickly in the sun.<\/p>
- Be positive<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Be vocal with your toddler about the benefits of using the toilet and just how fun and natural it is, but don't downplay nappies too quickly as you're likely to be met with some toilet resistance.<\/p>
- Choose the right clothes<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Potty training can be much easier for all involved if your toddler is dressed in non-fiddly clothes, pants or pull-ups. Not only will this mean a smoother process each time the potty is used, but will also hopefully minimise any mess.<\/p>
- Encourage good habits<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Changing your child's nappy in the bathroom, where you'll likely store your potty, will help to bridge the gap between potty and nappies. Once potty training is in full swing, get your child in the habit of pulling their pants down and up before and after using the potty or toilet.<\/p>
- Provide a demonstration<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Is there nothing toddlers love more than to mimic their parents? Demonstrating step by step how to use the toilet, including flushing, will allow your child to feel more prepared when they finally give it a go.<\/p>
- Choose the right potty for your child<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Potty training will be a lot more appealing with the right potty or toilet seat. Let them guide you on whether a potty or potty seat is more appropriate and opt for a product that's sturdy and durable.<\/p>
Also look for features like footrests for added stability or removable inserts that will make the potty easier to clean. Consider overall design too \u2013 the more attractive the potty or seat is, the more fun and less overwhelming the whole experience will feel, particularly for children who are nervous. Some potties also come with their own flushing mechanism and lid.<\/p>
Parent-recommended potties:<\/strong><\/p>
- Lilla Children's Potty<\/a>, \u00a32.50 from IKEA<\/li>
- BabyBj\u00f6rn Potty Chair<\/a>, \u00a329.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
Related: The best potties and toilet training seats<\/a><\/h3>","value":"
Bear in mind that there's a wide variation in how quickly toddlers start potty training. Lateness in acquiring bladder and bowel control can be genetic<\/a> and boys may take longer to get the hang of it than girls.<\/p>
- You're changing fewer nappies<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
With bladder control inevitably comes fewer nappy changes. Once your child stays dry for a couple of hours, this may be a sign that they are developmentally ready to start potty training.<\/p>
- They know they're doing a poo or a wee<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
At around 18 months, toddlers often know that they're opening their bowels and, at this stage, are starting to link cause and effect. When it's happening, they'll likely stop what they're doing and wear a look of concentration on their faces.<\/p>
They might also vocalise that they've done a wee or a poo and tug at their nappy<\/a> or lie down in the 'change me now' position \u2013 a sure sign that they've noticed their nappy is soiled.<\/p>
- They're showing an interest in the potty or toilet<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Your child has probably been following you to the toilet for some time now. If they start indicating that they'd like to try using the potty or toilet themselves, encourage this role play even if it doesn't initially produce any results.<\/p>
What is a normal age for potty training?<\/h2>
Children tend to start potty training when they're around two years old, but it can happen anywhere between the ages of 18 months and three-and-a-half years.<\/p>
This does, of course, depend entirely on the child and some children may not start potty training until after the three-and-a-half year mark.<\/p>
How to prepare for potty training<\/h2>
If you think your toddler might be ready to give potty training a go, here's how to prepare:<\/p>
- Make sure your child is in good health<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
There's no point starting potty training while your child is feeling under the weather or ill. Start potty training when they're chirpy and in good health.<\/p>
- Is it the right time of year?<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Summer is probably the best season for potty training. Your toddler can potter around the garden, or the parts of your home you don't mind getting dirty, without a nappy on.<\/p>
She can then see what she's producing and, if there are accidents, your extra laundry and soggy rugs will dry more quickly in the sun.<\/p>
- Be positive<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Be vocal with your toddler about the benefits of using the toilet and just how fun and natural it is, but don't downplay nappies too quickly as you're likely to be met with some toilet resistance.<\/p>
- Choose the right clothes<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Potty training can be much easier for all involved if your toddler is dressed in non-fiddly clothes, pants or pull-ups. Not only will this mean a smoother process each time the potty is used, but will also hopefully minimise any mess.<\/p>
- Encourage good habits<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Changing your child's nappy in the bathroom, where you'll likely store your potty, will help to bridge the gap between potty and nappies. Once potty training is in full swing, get your child in the habit of pulling their pants down and up before and after using the potty or toilet.<\/p>
- Provide a demonstration<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Is there nothing toddlers love more than to mimic their parents? Demonstrating step by step how to use the toilet, including flushing, will allow your child to feel more prepared when they finally give it a go.<\/p>
- Choose the right potty for your child<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
Potty training will be a lot more appealing with the right potty or toilet seat. Let them guide you on whether a potty or potty seat is more appropriate and opt for a product that's sturdy and durable.<\/p>
Also look for features like footrests for added stability or removable inserts that will make the potty easier to clean. Consider overall design too \u2013 the more attractive the potty or seat is, the more fun and less overwhelming the whole experience will feel, particularly for children who are nervous. Some potties also come with their own flushing mechanism and lid.<\/p>
Parent-recommended potties:<\/strong><\/p>
- Lilla Children's Potty<\/a>, \u00a32.50 from IKEA<\/li>
- BabyBj\u00f6rn Potty Chair<\/a>, \u00a329.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
Related: The best potties and toilet training seats<\/a><\/h3>"},{"meta_id":518700,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_2_content","meta_value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35","value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35"},{"meta_id":518701,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_3_title","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":518702,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_3_title","meta_value":"field_602a92c901c21","value":"field_602a92c901c21"},{"meta_id":518703,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_3_image_image","meta_value":"13266","value":"13266"},{"meta_id":518704,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_3_image_image","meta_value":"field_5ff70e497941a","value":"field_5ff70e497941a"},{"meta_id":518705,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_3_image_text","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":518706,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_3_image_text","meta_value":"field_60103b17570e9","value":"field_60103b17570e9"},{"meta_id":518707,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_3_image_width","meta_value":"full","value":"full"},{"meta_id":518708,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_3_image_width","meta_value":"field_5ff70e497941b","value":"field_5ff70e497941b"},{"meta_id":518709,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_3_image","meta_value":"","value":""},{"meta_id":518710,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_3_image","meta_value":"field_5ff70e4979419","value":"field_5ff70e4979419"},{"meta_id":518711,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_4_content","meta_value":"
How long does potty training take?<\/h2>
Bowel control often comes before bladder control and children may be wet in the night for some time even when they're dry during the day.<\/p>
You can't teach toilet training in a day \u2013 it may take weeks or months, with minor relapses if your child becomes troubled or ill.<\/p>
If you're lucky, your toddler may step out of nappies within a couple of weeks and never look back.<\/p>","value":"
How long does potty training take?<\/h2>
Bowel control often comes before bladder control and children may be wet in the night for some time even when they're dry during the day.<\/p>
You can't teach toilet training in a day \u2013 it may take weeks or months, with minor relapses if your child becomes troubled or ill.<\/p>
If you're lucky, your toddler may step out of nappies within a couple of weeks and never look back.<\/p>"},{"meta_id":518712,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_4_content","meta_value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35","value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35"},{"meta_id":518713,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_5_quote","meta_value":"I let my second daughter go naked from the waist down for a week. By day two, she was going to the potty herself and now she tells me when she needs to go. My first daughter was not as quick, so don\u2019t worry if it takes longer.","value":"I let my second daughter go naked from the waist down for a week. By day two, she was going to the potty herself and now she tells me when she needs to go. My first daughter was not as quick, so don\u2019t worry if it takes longer."},{"meta_id":518714,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_5_quote","meta_value":"field_5ff70e2f79410","value":"field_5ff70e2f79410"},{"meta_id":518715,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_6_content","meta_value":"
How to introduce a potty<\/h2>
Toilets can seem enormous to toddlers, who often worry they'll fall in and get flushed away. Try not to encourage this anxiety by reassuring your toddler that's there no chance of this happening.<\/p>
Introduce your toddler to the potty in a casual way, letting them play with it and role play with teddies or dolls. Don't let the first introduction be their bare bottom on the chilly plastic with your face peering nightmarishly from above.<\/p>
It may also be helpful to start with a low-pressure introduction by placing the potty in the bathroom and encouraging your toddler to sit on it before bath time.<\/p>
If a trainer seat is more appealing and 'grown up' to your toddler than a potty, put one over the toilet seat and add a step stool if your child struggling to get up onto the seat. Of course, the toilet is not as convenient as a potty, so you may need to visit it more frequently to help your child get used to it.<\/p>
To get your toddler interested in potty training, if they're not already, trying reading a potty training book with them.<\/p>
Parent-recommended potty training books:<\/strong><\/p>
- Lulu's Loo<\/a>, \u00a36.55 on Amazon<\/li>
- Aliens Love Underpants!<\/a>, from \u00a34.99 on Amazon<\/li>
- I Want My Potty!<\/a>, from \u00a33.74 on Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
Related: The best potty training books<\/a><\/h3>","value":"
How to introduce a potty<\/h2>
Toilets can seem enormous to toddlers, who often worry they'll fall in and get flushed away. Try not to encourage this anxiety by reassuring your toddler that's there no chance of this happening.<\/p>
Introduce your toddler to the potty in a casual way, letting them play with it and role play with teddies or dolls. Don't let the first introduction be their bare bottom on the chilly plastic with your face peering nightmarishly from above.<\/p>
It may also be helpful to start with a low-pressure introduction by placing the potty in the bathroom and encouraging your toddler to sit on it before bath time.<\/p>
If a trainer seat is more appealing and 'grown up' to your toddler than a potty, put one over the toilet seat and add a step stool if your child struggling to get up onto the seat. Of course, the toilet is not as convenient as a potty, so you may need to visit it more frequently to help your child get used to it.<\/p>
To get your toddler interested in potty training, if they're not already, trying reading a potty training book with them.<\/p>
Parent-recommended potty training books:<\/strong><\/p>
- Lulu's Loo<\/a>, \u00a36.55 on Amazon<\/li>
- Aliens Love Underpants!<\/a>, from \u00a34.99 on Amazon<\/li>
- I Want My Potty!<\/a>, from \u00a33.74 on Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
Related: The best potty training books<\/a><\/h3>"},{"meta_id":518716,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_6_content","meta_value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35","value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35"},{"meta_id":518717,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_7_quote","meta_value":"Lulu's Loo seems to work the best. After reading it several times, my DD refuses to wear her nappy and is much happier letting me sit her on the toilet.","value":"Lulu's Loo seems to work the best. After reading it several times, my DD refuses to wear her nappy and is much happier letting me sit her on the toilet."},{"meta_id":518718,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_7_quote","meta_value":"field_5ff70e2f79410","value":"field_5ff70e2f79410"},{"meta_id":518719,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_8_content","meta_value":"
How to potty train your toddler<\/h2>
1. Explain what you're doing<\/h2>
Talk to your toddler, make sure they're aware of the plan, and let them know that you support this new phase in their development as this will reinforce their decision to start using a potty or toilet.<\/p>
Rewards, such as stickers or a small sweet treat, will also help them to feel more encouraged.<\/p>
2. Eliminate the pressure<\/h2>
Potty training success can vary dramatically from child to child and it's important that parents don't cause any unnecessary pressure. Patience and encouragement is key so as to not diminish self-confidence.<\/p>
3. Ditch the nappies<\/h2>
No nappies or pants around the house is often the order of the day once you start potty training, but buying your child some training pants will help them to feel more grown up.<\/p>
Some parents prefer disposable pull-ups to get started (they offer absorption in the event of an accident), but if you're environmentally-conscious, reusable training pants are a good place to start.<\/p>
Your child will then feel the difference and start to associate wearing their training pants with going to the toilet.<\/p>
Parent-recommended reusable training pants:<\/strong><\/p>
- Bambino Mio Potty Training Pants<\/a>, \u00a35 from Amazon<\/li>
- Bright Bots Trainer Pants<\/a>, \u00a34.99 from The Nappy Lady<\/li>
- Flyish Training Pants<\/a>, \u00a317.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>","value":"
How to potty train your toddler<\/h2>
1. Explain what you're doing<\/h2>
Talk to your toddler, make sure they're aware of the plan, and let them know that you support this new phase in their development as this will reinforce their decision to start using a potty or toilet.<\/p>
Rewards, such as stickers or a small sweet treat, will also help them to feel more encouraged.<\/p>
2. Eliminate the pressure<\/h2>
Potty training success can vary dramatically from child to child and it's important that parents don't cause any unnecessary pressure. Patience and encouragement is key so as to not diminish self-confidence.<\/p>
3. Ditch the nappies<\/h2>
No nappies or pants around the house is often the order of the day once you start potty training, but buying your child some training pants will help them to feel more grown up.<\/p>
Some parents prefer disposable pull-ups to get started (they offer absorption in the event of an accident), but if you're environmentally-conscious, reusable training pants are a good place to start.<\/p>
Your child will then feel the difference and start to associate wearing their training pants with going to the toilet.<\/p>
Parent-recommended reusable training pants:<\/strong><\/p>
- Bambino Mio Potty Training Pants<\/a>, \u00a35 from Amazon<\/li>
- Bright Bots Trainer Pants<\/a>, \u00a34.99 from The Nappy Lady<\/li>
- Flyish Training Pants<\/a>, \u00a317.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>"},{"meta_id":518720,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_8_content","meta_value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35","value":"field_5ff5e32e00b35"},{"meta_id":518721,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_9_quote","meta_value":"We used the Bright Bots and Bambino Mio ones. They still get wet in them, but it stops that total flooding you get without.","value":"We used the Bright Bots and Bambino Mio ones. They still get wet in them, but it stops that total flooding you get without."},{"meta_id":518722,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"_body_9_quote","meta_value":"field_5ff70e2f79410","value":"field_5ff70e2f79410"},{"meta_id":518723,"post_id":7345,"meta_key":"body_10_content","meta_value":"
Related: The best potty training pants for toddlers<\/a><\/h3>
4. Encourage regular potty visits<\/h2>
For the first day or two, sit her on her potty every half an hour or so. Encourage her to use the potty after she's woken up \u2013 first thing in the morning for example \u2013 and teach her to check for dryness.<\/p>
5. Use technology as a helping hand<\/h2>
When it comes to potty training, no strategy is off the table. One mum found Amazon's Alexa to be very helpful in aiding her son's potty training<\/a>, using her Amazon Echo Dot<\/a> to set potty reminders every 40 minutes.<\/p>
A parent's potty training diary<\/h2>
This Mumsnet user's diary is an example of what you can expect when you start potty training your toddler:<\/p>
- Day 1<\/strong>. We stayed in all day. Potty in the lounge. Sat him on the potty every 15 minutes for five minutes or so. If he did a wee while he was on the potty, we would cheer and give him stickers etc. If he did a wee on the floor, then we just said, \u201cNever mind. We'll get it in the potty next time and get a sticker.\u201d No pants or trousers \u2013 just a naked bottom half all day.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 2<\/strong>. More of the same, with more wees on the potty than on the floor.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 3<\/strong>. Still stayed in all day, but only sat him on the potty every two hours or so \u2013 I worked out from the previous couple of days that he wees about every two hours. He mostly managed to hold it in for the whole two hours each time and then did it straight away when I asked him to sit on the potty.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 4<\/strong>. The same again. No accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 5<\/strong>. Stopped reminding him every two hours. Said at the beginning of the day, \u201cIf you need a wee then ask Mummy. Your potty is here. OK?\u201d A few accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 6<\/strong>. Same again, but he got the hang of it without me reminding him and started asking to go.<\/li><\/ul>
Reacting to accidents<\/h2>
Be sympathetic about accidents and stress the joys of no nappies rather than the delights of weeing in the potty. Don't make a drama out of wet pants \u2013 children, especially when they're older, can feel ashamed whenever their bladder lets them down.<\/p>
During the early days, a tummy bug or diarrhoea is likely to cause accidents. If your child has diarrhoea and is upset about it, reduce any additional stress by staying home (if possible) and reassure them that diarrhoea is also experienced by adults.<\/p>
Don't treat toileting as disgusting<\/h2>
Most people aren't relaxed about their bodily functions, so it can be difficult not to pass your hang-ups on to your child. Phrases like \u201cUgh, you smell\u201d will be counterproductive. Control your revulsion, even when scraping up poo from the living room carpet.<\/p>
Potty training out and about<\/h2>
Toddlers usually can't go to the toilet 'just in case' before a long journey. Inevitably, they'll want to go when you're travelling at 70mph along the motorway. Take a potty with you, but don't risk life and limb to avoid a puddle in the car.<\/p>
Trainer pants may also be worthwhile for trips out, but always bring a change of clothes with you as well.<\/p>","value":"
Related: The best potty training pants for toddlers<\/a><\/h3>
4. Encourage regular potty visits<\/h2>
For the first day or two, sit her on her potty every half an hour or so. Encourage her to use the potty after she's woken up \u2013 first thing in the morning for example \u2013 and teach her to check for dryness.<\/p>
5. Use technology as a helping hand<\/h2>
When it comes to potty training, no strategy is off the table. One mum found Amazon's Alexa to be very helpful in aiding her son's potty training<\/a>, using her Amazon Echo Dot<\/a> to set potty reminders every 40 minutes.<\/p>
A parent's potty training diary<\/h2>
This Mumsnet user's diary is an example of what you can expect when you start potty training your toddler:<\/p>
- Day 1<\/strong>. We stayed in all day. Potty in the lounge. Sat him on the potty every 15 minutes for five minutes or so. If he did a wee while he was on the potty, we would cheer and give him stickers etc. If he did a wee on the floor, then we just said, \u201cNever mind. We'll get it in the potty next time and get a sticker.\u201d No pants or trousers \u2013 just a naked bottom half all day.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 2<\/strong>. More of the same, with more wees on the potty than on the floor.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 3<\/strong>. Still stayed in all day, but only sat him on the potty every two hours or so \u2013 I worked out from the previous couple of days that he wees about every two hours. He mostly managed to hold it in for the whole two hours each time and then did it straight away when I asked him to sit on the potty.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 4<\/strong>. The same again. No accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 5<\/strong>. Stopped reminding him every two hours. Said at the beginning of the day, \u201cIf you need a wee then ask Mummy. Your potty is here. OK?\u201d A few accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 6<\/strong>. Same again, but he got the hang of it without me reminding him and started asking to go.<\/li><\/ul>
Reacting to accidents<\/h2>
Be sympathetic about accidents and stress the joys of no nappies rather than the delights of weeing in the potty. Don't make a drama out of wet pants \u2013 children, especially when they're older, can feel ashamed whenever their bladder lets them down.<\/p>
During the early days, a tummy bug or diarrhoea is likely to cause accidents. If your child has diarrhoea and is upset about it, reduce any additional stress by staying home (if possible) and reassure them that diarrhoea is also experienced by adults.<\/p>
Don't treat toileting as disgusting<\/h2>
Most people aren't relaxed about their bodily functions, so it can be difficult not to pass your hang-ups on to your child. Phrases like \u201cUgh, you smell\u201d will be counterproductive. Control your revulsion, even when scraping up poo from the living room carpet.<\/p>
Potty training out and about<\/h2>
Toddlers usually can't go to the toilet 'just in case' before a long journey. Inevitably, they'll want to go when you're travelling at 70mph along the motorway. Take a potty with you, but don't risk life and limb to avoid a puddle in the car.<\/p>
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Getting your toddler dry through the night<\/h2>
Don't rush trying to get your toddler to stay dry through the night. Only dispense with nighttime nappies once daytime dryness has been comfortably achieved and she has had some (or all) nights in which the nappy stayed dry.<\/p>
If your child isn't dry at night, it's probably because their nervous system isn't mature enough to trigger a signal that their bladder is full and needs emptying.<\/p>
Discuss with your child the issue of leaving nappies off at night and put a plastic sheet under the sheets. Be relaxed \u2013 reassure your child it doesn't matter if they wet the bed and that you can wash the sheets and change their pyjamas. Let them know they're bound to get the hang of it soon.<\/p>","value":"
Getting your toddler dry through the night<\/h2>
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If your child isn't dry at night, it's probably because their nervous system isn't mature enough to trigger a signal that their bladder is full and needs emptying.<\/p>
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- Day 6<\/strong>. Same again, but he got the hang of it without me reminding him and started asking to go.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 5<\/strong>. Stopped reminding him every two hours. Said at the beginning of the day, \u201cIf you need a wee then ask Mummy. Your potty is here. OK?\u201d A few accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 4<\/strong>. The same again. No accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 3<\/strong>. Still stayed in all day, but only sat him on the potty every two hours or so \u2013 I worked out from the previous couple of days that he wees about every two hours. He mostly managed to hold it in for the whole two hours each time and then did it straight away when I asked him to sit on the potty.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 2<\/strong>. More of the same, with more wees on the potty than on the floor.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 1<\/strong>. We stayed in all day. Potty in the lounge. Sat him on the potty every 15 minutes for five minutes or so. If he did a wee while he was on the potty, we would cheer and give him stickers etc. If he did a wee on the floor, then we just said, \u201cNever mind. We'll get it in the potty next time and get a sticker.\u201d No pants or trousers \u2013 just a naked bottom half all day.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 6<\/strong>. Same again, but he got the hang of it without me reminding him and started asking to go.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 5<\/strong>. Stopped reminding him every two hours. Said at the beginning of the day, \u201cIf you need a wee then ask Mummy. Your potty is here. OK?\u201d A few accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 4<\/strong>. The same again. No accidents.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 3<\/strong>. Still stayed in all day, but only sat him on the potty every two hours or so \u2013 I worked out from the previous couple of days that he wees about every two hours. He mostly managed to hold it in for the whole two hours each time and then did it straight away when I asked him to sit on the potty.<\/li><\/ul>
- Day 2<\/strong>. More of the same, with more wees on the potty than on the floor.<\/li><\/ul>
- Bright Bots Trainer Pants<\/a>, \u00a34.99 from The Nappy Lady<\/li>
- Bright Bots Trainer Pants<\/a>, \u00a34.99 from The Nappy Lady<\/li>
- Aliens Love Underpants!<\/a>, from \u00a34.99 on Amazon<\/li>
- Aliens Love Underpants!<\/a>, from \u00a34.99 on Amazon<\/li>
- BabyBj\u00f6rn Potty Chair<\/a>, \u00a329.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
- Lilla Children's Potty<\/a>, \u00a32.50 from IKEA<\/li>
- Choose the right potty for your child<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Provide a demonstration<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Encourage good habits<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Choose the right clothes<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Be positive<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Is it the right time of year?<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Make sure your child is in good health<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- They're showing an interest in the potty or toilet<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- They know they're doing a poo or a wee<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- BabyBj\u00f6rn Potty Chair<\/a>, \u00a329.99 from Amazon<\/li><\/ul>
- Lilla Children's Potty<\/a>, \u00a32.50 from IKEA<\/li>
- Choose the right potty for your child<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Provide a demonstration<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Encourage good habits<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Choose the right clothes<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Be positive<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Is it the right time of year?<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- Make sure your child is in good health<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- They're showing an interest in the potty or toilet<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- They know they're doing a poo or a wee<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- You're changing fewer nappies<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
- They're old enough to have bladder control<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>
我怎么知道我的孩子是否准备好开始如厕训练?
如果您的TOT在正确的发展阶段开始灌封培训，策略将只会成功。以下是他们可以准备好的主要标志：
- 他们已经大到可以控制膀胱了
教两岁以上的孩子上厕所要容易得多。对于18个月以下的孩子来说，正确的如厕训练几乎是不可能的，因为膀胱和肠道的括约肌(肌肉出口)还没有在他们的控制之下。
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请记住，幼儿在幼儿训练中有多迅速存在广泛的变化。收购迟到膀胱和肠道控制可以是遗传的男孩可能比女孩需要更长的时间来掌握它。
- 你换的尿布少了
膀胱控制不可避免地达到尿布变化。一旦您的孩子在晾干几个小时后，这可能是一个标志，即他们在发展方向上开始培训。
- 他们知道自己在拉屎或小便
在大约18个月大的时候，蹒跚学步的孩子通常知道他们正在排泄，在这个阶段，他们开始把因果联系起来。当它发生时，他们很可能会停下手中的工作，脸上带着专注的表情。
他们也可能发声，他们已经做了一个糟糕或一个斗争和拖着的尿布或者以“马上给我换尿布”的姿势躺下——这肯定表明他们已经注意到自己的尿布脏了。
- 他们对便盆或厕所表现出兴趣
你的孩子可能已经跟着你去厕所一段时间了。如果他们开始表示他们想自己尝试使用便盆或厕所，鼓励这种角色扮演，即使最初不会产生任何效果。
有趣的训练的正常年龄是多少？
当他们大约两岁时，孩子们往往会开始培训便利的训练，但它可能发生在18个月和半年之间的任何地方。
当然，这完全取决于孩子，有些孩子可能在3年半之后才开始上厕所训练。
如何为便携式训练做准备
如果你认为你的孩子可能已经准备好进行如厕训练了，这里有一些准备方法:
- 确保你的孩子身体健康
在您的孩子在天气或生病的感觉时，没有点开口培训。当他们患有狡辩和身体健康时，开始便盆训练。
- 现在是一年中的合适时间吗?
夏天可能是训练如厕的最佳季节。你蹒跚学步的孩子可以在花园里闲逛，或者在家里你不介意弄脏的地方玩耍，而且不穿尿布。
这样，她就可以看到她生产的东西，如果发生意外，多余的衣服和潮湿的地毯会在阳光下更快地晾干。
- 是积极的
告诉你的孩子使用厕所的好处，以及它是多么的有趣和自然，但不要太快地淡化尿布，因为你可能会遇到一些厕所阻力。
- 选择合适的衣服
如果您的小孩穿着非疲巧的衣服，裤子或上拉，所有参与情况会更容易培训。每次使用便盆时，这不仅意味着更平滑的过程，但也希望最大限度地减少任何混乱。
- 鼓励良好的习惯
在卫生间给孩子换尿布，因为你可能会把便盆放在那里，这将有助于弥补便盆和尿布之间的差距。一旦便盆训练全面展开，让你的孩子养成在使用便盆或马桶前后脱裤子的习惯。
- 提供一个示范
蹒跚学步的孩子最喜欢模仿他们的父母了吗?一步一步地示范如何使用厕所，包括冲水，会让你的孩子在最后尝试时感觉更有准备。
- 为你的孩子选择合适的便盆
有了正确的便盆或马桶座圈，便盆培训将会更有吸引力。让他们指导你使用便盆或便盆座是否更合适，并选择坚固耐用的产品。
此外，你还可以寻找一些功能，比如增加稳定性的脚踏板或可移动的插入物，使便盆更容易清洁。还要考虑整体设计——便盆或坐垫越吸引人，整个体验就会越有趣、越不让人受不了，尤其是对那些紧张的孩子来说。有些马桶还自带冲厕装置和盖子。
父母推荐的养水器：
- 莉拉孩子的便盆从宜家(IKEA)购买，售价2.5英镑
- BabyBjorn便盆椅亚马逊29.99英镑
有关的：最好的便池和马桶训练座椅
如厕训练需要多长时间?
排便控制通常先于膀胱控制，即使孩子们在白天很干燥，但他们可能会在晚上潮湿一段时间。
你不可能在一天内教会孩子如何使用厕所——这可能需要几周或几个月的时间，如果你的孩子出现问题或生病，可能会有轻微的复发。
如果你幸运的话，你的孩子可能会在几周内走出纸尿裤，并且永不回头。
我让我的二女儿下半身赤裸了一个星期。到了第二天，她就自己去上厕所了现在她告诉我什么时候需要上厕所。我的第一个女儿没那么快，所以如果花的时间长了也不用担心。
如何介绍便盆
对蹒跚学步的孩子来说，厕所似乎太大了，他们经常担心自己会掉进去被冲走。尽量不要鼓励这种焦虑，安慰你的孩子，这是不可能发生的。
以一种随意的方式把你的孩子带到便盆前，让他们和便盆一起玩，和泰迪熊或洋娃娃角色扮演。不要让他们的第一个介绍是裸露的屁股在寒冷的塑料上，你的脸从上面可怕地盯着。
这也可能是有益的，通过将便盆放在浴室，并鼓励你的孩子坐在它之前洗澡。
如果对你蹒跚学步的孩子来说，教练椅比便盆更有吸引力，更“成熟”，那就在马桶座圈上放一个，如果你的孩子挣扎着要爬到座位上，那就加一个踏板凳。当然，厕所不像便盆那么方便，所以你可能需要更频繁地去看看，以帮助你的孩子习惯它。
为了让你的小孩对便盆训练感兴趣，如果他们还没有，试图与他们阅读便盆训练书。
家长推荐的如厕训练书籍:
有关的：最好的如厕训练书
露露的厕所似乎是最好的。在看了几遍之后，我的DD拒绝穿她的尿布，更乐意让我把她放在马桶上。
如何训练孩子上厕所
1.解释你在做什么
和你的孩子谈谈，确保他们知道这个计划，让他们知道你支持他们发展的这个新阶段，因为这将加强他们开始使用厕所或厕所的决定。
奖励，如贴纸或小甜点，也会帮助他们感到更鼓舞。
2.消除压力
PoTty培训成功可能会因儿童而剧烈地变化，重要的是父母不会引起任何不必要的压力。耐心和鼓励是关键，以便没有减少自信心。
3.沟的尿布
在房子周围没有尿布或裤子往往是一旦你开始培训的一天的顺序，但购买你的孩子一些训练裤会帮助他们感到更加成长。
一些家长更喜欢一次性的引体向上作为开始(它们在发生事故时提供吸收)，但如果你有环保意识，可重复使用的训练裤是一个不错的开始。
你的孩子会感觉到不同，并开始把穿训练裤和上厕所联系起来。
家长推荐可重复使用的训练裤:
- Bambino Mio便盆训练裤亚马逊5英镑
- 明亮的机器人培训师裤子， 4.99英镑
- Flyish训练裤亚马逊17.99英镑
我们使用了明亮的机器人和Bambino Mio。他们仍然湿润，但它停止了你没有的总洪水。
有关的：幼儿最好的便盆训练裤
4.鼓励常规的便盆访问
对于第一天或两个人，每半小时左右坐在她的便盆上。鼓励她在她醒来后使用便盆 - 例如，早上第一件事 - 并教她检查干燥。
5.使用科技作为帮助之手
谈到便盆培训时，桌面上没有策略。一位母亲发现亚马逊的Alexa对她儿子的如厕训练很有帮助，用她亚马逊回声点每40分钟设置一次如厕提醒。
父母的便盆训练日记
这个Mumsnet用户的日记是您在开始培训您的幼儿时可以预期的一个例子：
- 第1天．我们整天都在。在休息室的便盆。每15分钟坐在便盆上五分钟左右。如果他在暴露的时候做了一个小伙子，我们会加油并给他贴纸等。如果他在地板上做了一个小小的，那么我们刚才说，“没关系。我们下次下次在容易的贴纸上得到它。“没有裤子或裤子 - 只是一半的裸体下半场。
- 第2天．差不多，在便盆上的尿比在地板上的尿更多。
- 第3天．仍然在整天呆在一边，但每两小时左右只坐在幽灵上 - 我从前几天工作了，他每两周一次。他大多数人每次都在整整两个小时内抓住它，然后在我让他坐在便盆坐下来时直接这样做。
- 第四天．和从前一样了。没有事故。
- 第五天．不再每两小时提醒他一次。她在一天开始的时候说，“如果你需要上厕所，就问妈妈。”你的厕所在这里。好吗?”一些事故。
- 一天6．同样又一次，但他没有我提醒他并开始去了。
反应意外
对意外事件要有同情心，强调不用尿布的乐趣，而不是在便盆里小便的乐趣。不要把尿湿的裤子当儿戏——孩子们，尤其是长大了的孩子们，当他们的膀胱让他们失望时，他们会感到羞愧。
在早期，肚子虫或腹泻可能会导致事故。如果您的孩子腹泻，并且对此感到不满，请通过留下家庭（如果可能）来减少任何额外的压力，并向他们安排腹泻也经历了成年人。
不要认为上厕所是恶心的
大多数人对自己的身体机能都不放心，所以很难不把自己的顾虑传染给孩子。像“啊，你身上有味道”这样的话只会适得其反。控制你的厌恶感，即使是在清理客厅地毯上的粪便的时候。
便盆训练和约
蹒跚学步的孩子通常不会在长途旅行前上厕所，“以防万一”。不可避免的是，当你在高速公路上以每小时70英里的速度行驶时，他们会想要去。带上便盆，但不要冒着生命危险去避免车里的水坑。
运动裤也很适合外出旅行，但一定要带一套换洗的衣服。
我儿子的事真是太偶然了。正当我认为我们取得了进展时，他却遇到了挫折。我们在车里放一个便盆，如果他告诉我他需要小便，我就把车停在路边，他用了便盆，然后得到表扬。
让你蹒跚学步的孩子整夜擦干衣服
不要急着让你的孩子整晚都保持干燥。只有当白天的尿布已经舒服地干了，而且她有过一些(或所有)晚上尿布保持干的情况时，才需要使用夜间尿布。
如果你的孩子晚上还不干，可能是因为他们的神经系统还不够成熟，无法发出膀胱已经满了需要排空的信号。
和你的孩子讨论晚上不要用尿布的问题，在床单下面放一块塑料布。放松——让你的孩子放心，即使他们尿床也没关系，你可以给他们洗床单和换睡衣。让他们知道，他们一定会很快找到窍门的。
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